When the guys are younger, they are on edgy too. The guy you be with its not comfertable that the future is not secure.

You didn't arrive that position to wishing you what, control Westlife or anyone on that way, either both Ireland or American side? Now its the boyband, and where is your ITune Solo Artist you moving your age line?

You like them, you go and using more of the seductive methods to talk to them. Not bossing them. Be honest with them, not hit them, and critique them, and yelling at them.